And all the strings are broken, or again about the good force-

Yesterday, again, broke some thread. That's how I was told. Along the way, was accused of humiliation. About five minutes thinking, where could I at least the preconditions for this create. I found only one reason. The man tried hard to like me, so I impose their services. I took them to. Times tries to deny what. I do not forbid anything to anyone (unless it causes harm to me ), if a person greater than 16. Everyone should at that age to decide all by yourself. Not to say that I am exceedingly pleased to be the object of one's experiments over the individual, but why not make a nice good person, even if the fact of its existence.

What is interesting, how often people use such a simple technique, as. imposition of its services. Impose, and then resent that they do not appreciate and love for their. Even worse, if, after the failure of their services, you are in another place will receive the same. Be sure to hear a. ' Well, I told (a)'. When my wife went away to save the situation as possible, then both sides have been heard from relatives. ' Well, I told (a)'. Now they are so confused by our relationship, that they prefer to remain silent. But that's another story. Do not fit into the standards - I'm happy with this. :).

Here are the most banal situation with the imposition. Her husband, who needs a home home only a sofa and a couple of bottles of beer in the fridge. He has lunch at work, dinner with beer for breakfast only a cup of coffee - well not go in the morning is nothing in mouth. And its in the morning waiting for the warm pancakes, lunchtime (suddenly come ) Borschik with donuts for dinner stew with noodles. Blooming wife gives him the creation of their hands, waiting for true praise - worked well. And do not get it. What all comes to an end? . ' Ready- to prepare for this beast, and lie with her ​​legs on the couch with a beer and watching football '. Ask, of course, is not kosher. And if they ask, then no alternative:. ' At dinner, pancakes or dumplings? '. Answer that does not need anything, so get puffed cheeks and a full apron grievances.

Incidentally, I experimented with failures. Here's what 's surprising how many people do not talk about life in the community, collective decisions, pairing, as a reflex - yet. domination. determines the behavior of a person in the group. If you do not give a person to create something for another, it turn sour and lose the meaning of existence. A person must be greater than someone in the group in any way. But the most simple way - is to do what you know how, and to convince the other that it is necessary. And you can, and do not convince.

Sometimes I think the resentment at the failure of their services - this is also part of a strategy for complacency and uverivaniyu in their own sufficiency and good luck. Man as he scales - wants to be in equilibrium, but always something laying on the cup, measuring, testing, proving. That's an example of a wife cheat cheek cry quietly in a corner and then come to the couch and say:. ... I then cook, clean, and if you do not see this. You're just a kid! '. And the kitchen to call my mother and her friends.

Goat at this time a few stunned looks at the bottle, which is also splash -goat and begins to think something like this:. ' Mistress? . I know how to cook, but do not climb - you also like to cook, here and do not climb on the kitchen. Clean? . I see everything, but, frankly, my dear, I need so little - so I do not mind fucked in the evening and did not call a goat at least at home, I like this ( holds his hand across his throat ) is enough of my head. In short, do not fuck you would go to his care '. Then the body rises from the sofa, slams the door and go drink beer with friends in a sports bar, where there are no quarrelsome wives, confident in his own infallibility.

Who is right here? . What prevented those two to sit in the evening and make a menu that will suit both. Or the other option: cook for yourself, but if you want - add. Still it is possible to propose options. Cooking does not eat - in the refrigerator. It will be necessary, he razogreesh. You can never prepare. Semi-finished now is not much worse than home cooking, so I know. And in the cafe- restaurant is not so much to eat, except that lazily trudge. But the nerves are intact. And all contented and happy.

Yes, that's fucking. not happy. Disappear to dominate. At work, you're nobody, a loser for the relatives, even at home in anything you do not put. Well, how to live here. Anguish and the reason for depression.

So the quarrel, and to impose. You'll see, something will. Or get tired a little bit of scandal, you suddenly realize that. not to strain to each other is much more economical and more profitable. IMHO, people are being collectively, but in the macrocosm. When it comes to the microcosm, each on its own. Or simply put, drinking vodka at the table sit the whole company, but to drink before vomiting or just stoshku slam and home - everyone decides for himself, but like the equally overthrown.